Things Took a Turn

I haven’t been quiet about it, and I certainly haven’t hidden anything. If nothing else I’ve been testing the waters. Putting it out there to see what comes back. But a dear friend of mine, who initially was NOT on my bandwagon, recently said to me, “I think you should live with purpose and intention”. So in that spirit I will just say it.

I intend to move to Morocco. Inshallah.

This is not a small decision. Nor has it been taken lightly. Nor is it fast, sudden, or out of the blue.  It might seem that way if you have not been paying attention. But to those who have or who know me well – it makes perfect sense. And I’m sure some of you are breathing a sigh of relief. FINALLY. (Or some may, quite rightly, be thinking – “here we go again”)

Whatever you think, that’s none of my business. I have been thinking about making a move for years. How many times in the last 6 years have I said, “I would love to sell my house, but I don’t know what my next move is and I am NOT selling to simply move somewhere else in Ontario”. Truth. I’ve said it 569 times. Or thereabouts. I don’t want to live in Ontario. It’s why I moved to Boston. And then Banff, and Victoria and then later Calgary. There is in fact, no where in Canada that I want to live. (Much to my mothers chagrin when I was younger). If there were, I would be there now. But there is not. I didn’t know where to go – but go I would. Of that I was certain. I also said a number of times, “I’m going to meet a handsome expat, move to the British countryside and get a goat”. (I was watching Broadchurch so it sort of made sense). As one of my loves just said to me, “you’ve never been rooted, you’ve never had to be in any one place”. No.  And since my parents died, I really have no roots. Nothing.

So I sat. And I waited. And I listened. Oh I listened very closely. To those winds that blow past. To the sound of my beating heart. To the empty rooms. To the passing faces. I listened. And I listened. With my heart wide open, I listened. 

And then I went to Morocco. And what I found there shouted at me. It took me a little by surprise because, extreme heat. But it was pretty clear to me, as  I travelled around the country, taking it all in, that this was the place. I would be back, and I would have way more stuff with me. But I would return.

There is opportunity in Morocco. A lot of opportunity. Especially for someone like me with a love of travel, a history in the business, a good sense of how shit works and some brains in my head. And an ability to meet people, talk to them, learn from them, and use that knowledge to move forward.

So I’m moving to Marrakech. Slowly. Very, very slowly. My house will be sold. Immediately. (Inshallah). All the stuff in the house will be sold. Its just stuff after all. And too much. I will live in a rental apartment near by for a year or two. I will move some of my stuff there and I will have a place to come “back” to in the summer, or if shit goes south. I will go for a few months at first. Look around, do some things, talk to some people, learn French. See just exactly what opportunities exist and what it all might look like. And then we’ll see. We will just wait and see what happens next.

But let it be said – I have never lived the life that so many people do. I’ve never been lucky enough to find my one true love (yet), or to have children. Or to have roots. But I am thrilled with the life I have had, and will have (Inshallah). I am so grateful for the opportunities I have been offered. I am so very grateful for it all. And I will not waste any more time sitting around dreaming. Its time to go out and find some things to call my own.


  1. raincitygal

    It’s really funny. I have wanted to go to Morocco for 20 years….always there, shouting from the back burner and last year it got too loud to ignore. I assumed the universe was telling me to go because it would change my life, or that something extraordinary would happen or that a void (was there one?) would be filled.
    When deciding how I would do this, as I would not do it alone, Kathi’s face came to mind immediately once I committed to “2015 is the year”.
    As it turns out….I think the universe was telling me that Kathi needed her ass kicked and I was the chosen one to do it. For everyone out there that might think, “Kathi is crazy” or “here she goes again” or “this won’t last”….I tell you this: I had not seen or had a verbal conversation with Kathi since the mid 90’s, we were friends but not super close.
    It amazed me how natural it was for her to be there, in Morocco. Inspired. Like peeling layers of onion. Clarity….and surprise. It was like she was lit with the thought of so many possibilities …and all this happened gradually over the course of the month – and I got to watch it.
    Me? I didn’t get the revelation I thought I was supposed to have on this bucket list trip – my life was enriched but no epiphany was to be had by me…. instead I was gifted with the opportunity to witness it happen to someone else (who I now consider a dear friend) and I wouldn’t change a thing. XO

  2. Michelle Taggart

    Sat Nam my beautiful Angel. You speak your truth and it is powerful, mindful and with intention. To lean into a new beginning the way you are doing with such beautiful soft curiosity is admirable and exquisite. Your plan sounds perfectly suited to fit your next chapter. I loved reading about it! xo

  3. Sue

    Will Daisy like Morocco?

    And – you have to promise to keep blogging.

    1. She will come over once I have a place to stay all finalized. First trip she will have to stay here. Shes too delicate to fly often. (Her choice, big baby)

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